{"id":10379,"date":"2021-11-15T10:16:19","date_gmt":"2021-11-15T15:16:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/?p=10379"},"modified":"2025-12-28T14:17:15","modified_gmt":"2025-12-28T19:17:15","slug":"a-soft-answer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/?p=10379","title":{"rendered":"A Soft Answer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Proverbs 15:1 &#8211; A soft answer turneth away wrath:  but grievous words stir up anger.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, while walking through a busy Walmart parking lot with my family, I witnessed something that reminded me of Proverbs 15:1.  Cars were pulling in and out.  People were walking in various directions.  It was a bit chaotic.<\/p>\n<p>A family was walking in the opposite direction to us as a car was turning into the lane.  There wasn&#8217;t much room for cars and pedestrians.  The car stopped.  The passenger window lowered.  I heard an angry voice.  The father of the family coming toward us was surprised and stopped for a moment.  A person in the vehicle was angrily talking to him.<\/p>\n<p>The situation made me nervous.  You never know what someone might impulsively do when they are angry, especially behind the wheel of a vehicle.  Something tragic could easily happen given how many people were walking and how close the cars were to us.<\/p>\n<p>To my great relief, the man walking kindly said to the person to the angry person in the car, &#8220;I am very sorry.  I did not know.  It wasn&#8217;t intentional.&#8221;  He then continued to walk with his family.  The driver slowly continued and calmly parked in the next open spot.<\/p>\n<p>I have no idea why the driver was angry.  Even the man he yelled at didn&#8217;t seem to know.  I admired that man for softly answering, thereby turning away the other man&#8217;s wrath.  Where some people would be ready for a fight and would have let some grievous words fly in reply, this man humbly apologized and moved along.  It all happened in a matter of seconds.  But it was refreshing to witness.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Proverbs 15:1 &#8211; A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger. Yesterday, while walking through a busy Walmart parking lot with my family, I witnessed something that reminded me of Proverbs 15:1. Cars were pulling in and out. People were walking in various directions. It was a bit chaotic. A family &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/?p=10379\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;A Soft Answer&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[254],"tags":[106,257,255,256],"class_list":["post-10379","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-thoughts-on-proverbs-15","tag-anger","tag-humility","tag-proverbs","tag-proverbs-15"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10379","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10379"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10379\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11175,"href":"https:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10379\/revisions\/11175"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10379"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10379"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloggingsam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10379"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}